family sculpture paper

[Bud Weiss]

Dear Adam:Thanks for bringing this forward.

I think you posted this previously and I really like it a lot.

 I imagine that when others see it, they will be doing a lot more family
sculpting as it really gets things off the ground.

I am sure there were other sessions following up on this one for Ruby with
either CHris or another director. I would love to have heard about
subsequent sessions prior to and perhaps, if there were any, after Ruby's
discharge.

I would like to hear from Ron or Karen who are trained Constellation
facilitators as to what they might have done in addition in the session
which was very rich to be sure. I think a lot of additional resolution could
have taken place using some of the techniques and special sentences
developed in Constellations regarding what is called "the orders of Love"
that would have lead to greater movement over time for the protagonist.

One of my peeves about the Constellation work is their refusal to allow for
sharing ala psychodrama afterwards with their notion that somehow it will
disturb or dilute or somehow interfere with the completion of the internal
memory reformation that takes place when a constellation is completed. I
really think that is because none of the people I have heard of who have
trained at any level in constellations other than Ron and Karen really
understand proper sharing and the way in which the director can guard
against inappropriate analysis and distancing during the sharing. Moreover
they do not understand Sociometry and the huge piece of social atom
reconstruction that takes place for all involved as a consequence of
effective sharing.

Thoughts anyone?  Bud

On Fri, Oct 9, 2009 at 5:05 PM, Adam Blatner <ablatner at verizon.net> wrote:

>  I forgot, did I tell you about this paper I posted on my website?
> http://www.blatner.com/adam/pdntbk/famsculptpdmenngr.html
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