Roles3

[Jenny Wilson]

Hi Adam
Continuing our conversation from some weeks ago about roles and role
theory.  Reading and puzzling I think that the word "theory" trips me
up.  Mostly finding this word used in psychology to mean assertions
about an underlying reality or something to explain observations. And
usually finding theory useful to guide me where to look or what to look
for including identifying omissions and the things that are not
immediately apparent. Pointing out reliable patterns and a rationale for
those patterns and clear definitions are part of that.  Finding answers
to my questions about clients and suggestions of how to work with them
has been relatively easy for me within a  CBT context I can find out
plenty from books and when I consult with fellow psychologists we seem
to be speaking the same language and thinking in similar ways - the
answers are not always "right" but they provide me with a clear
framework to start from . Psychodrama, role theory and communicating
with psychodramatists has me working much harder  - which I accept is a
good thing.

As a user friendly language and metaphor roles seem to work extremely
well - easy to relate to, easy to understand and very useful for that
purpose. But...borrowing your metaphor of the icon-based computer system
with the little pictures that indicate more complex operations: The
icons are fantastic when they work  but when they stop working?  When
that file in the little file icon refuses to open, when the  document in
it has disappeared..... The icons will not tell me why and they don't
guide me to solutions. At that point  I call in the  IT people to help 
and they know the underlying workings of the icons. They can not fix the
computer by just using the icons. Although I know people are not
computers and psychodrama is definitely not about "fixing" people I do
get curious about what is beneath the icons (and yes I do tend to get
much too focused on solutions!!!). I do want to learn more about making
psychodrama work and understand some of the reasons when it does not.
It's good to be reminded in your writing about drawing on other theory
and integrating other ideas because I definitely feel like I need it.

Now I'm starting to think "role heuristics" might work better for me
than "role theory".

Anyway - thanks for your earlier responses to my ideas and questions.
Getting on to grouptalk has been a good move for me, great to see lots
of others communicating about psychodrama ideas.

kind regards
Jenny


Adam Blatner wrote:
> no time pressure from this end
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> ----- Original Message ----- From: "Jenny Wilson"
> <jenny at blennerhassett.gen.nz>
> To: "Adam Blatner" <adam at blatner.com>
> Sent: Sunday, April 19, 2009 3:33 PM
> Subject: Re: roles2
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>
>> Hi Adam
>> just a quick response before I go to work - thanks for this. I have read
>> both your books and do want to re-read them, now with different
>> questions in mind. We have them at our psychodrama library - I just need
>> a few days before I can get there as busy with other stuff in the
>> daytime.
>> Jenny
>>
>>
>>
>> Adam Blatner wrote:
>>> Hi Jenny, should this go to grouptalk, too?
>>>   JW> I think I get it - a role /is/ a theory.
>>>   AB: No, role is an abstract construct. Perhaps it might be a
>>> theoretical statement to say that the complexes in the mind and in
>>> social situations can more effectively be described as operating as
>>> roles, close to the roles one sees played in drama, than as some
>>> abstract term, such as "ego"---which then requires endless
>>> definition---and in fact is used in quite different ways.
>>>       Several theoretical statements make up role theory. (I haven't
>>> thought this through but will try:)
>>> -- the mind may be imagined to operate as a confederation of roles, in
>>> which the coordination varies from high levels of integration to near
>>> chaos (e.g., in dementia).
>>>   -- it is possible for a type of role, the inner director, the
>>> choosing
>>> self, the I as decider, to dominate, suppress the expression of certain
>>> sub-roles, attend to and support the expression of others, and manage a
>>> flexibility of these expressions in response to circumstance
>>>    -- maturation involves the development of this aforementioned
>>> choosing self or meta-role. Therapy should have as its goal the same
>>> aim
>>>      -- the ineffective managing by the choosing self can in part
>>> account for both immaturity and various kinds of neuroses
>>>     -- the sub-roles can seem to come to take a dominant part at times,
>>> as if no one were even considering whether or not it would be wise to
>>> play this role. This is acting-out.
>>>     -- roles are capable of being developed or can remain in a
>>> relatively under-developed state
>>>      -- new roles can be learned, developed, invented to compensate for
>>> the under-development of other roles, and for many other reasons
>>>      -- humans have a tendency towards a fair amount of role expansion
>>> in life
>>>     -- in later life, or under certain circumstances, it can become
>>> wiser to pull back in the adventure into new roles, and instead
>>> focus or
>>> develop in greater depth certain other roles (e.g., spirituality,
>>> contemplation)
>>>     -- some roles may involve relatively actions that are mainly
>>> happening within the mind, and they may not be observable in terms of
>>> gross outward behavior
>>>             and so forth. I probably could come up with many more.
>>>       These are statements about roles that go to make up applied role
>>> theory.
>>>
>>>    No reproach, but I gather that you cannot find or don't want to buy
>>> my Foundations of Psychodrama, with three chapters on applied role
>>> theory.
>>>          This might help answer many questions.
>>>>
>>> JW As in it is an idea a suggestion an abstraction and a very "leaky"
>>> abstraction at that. AB: this sentence is not at all clear to me.
>>>
>>> JW  For some reason I have spent a long, long time looking at role in a
>>> different way, something more concrete a noun, a thing, a collection of
>>> observations.... I think the definitions of role that I read have
>>> tripped me up (ie., it involves a thinking, acting and feeling
>>> component
>>> etc.......)
>>>        I now wonder if a better definition of role would include the
>>> words "it is a mini- theory that helps describe what the client may
>>>> be experiencing in a particular moment....". Even the term "role
>>>> theory" sort of implies that it is a theory about someTHING, and I
>>>> have been  searching for the thing....
>>>
>>>     AB: A role is a complex of attitudes, behaviors, expectations. A
>>> role can be portrayed in drama.
>>> Many words cannot be portrayed accurately: Aggression. At best you
>>> could
>>> show your interpretation of one out of scores of different types of
>>> aggression and also exhibited at different levels of intensity. Many
>>> other psychological terms are similarly vague. Role invites a "show us
>>> how you would do that" question.
>>>
>>>          Does this help?  I agree that some definitions are
>>> unhelpful or
>>> even confusing.
>>>
>>>   A problem with the role concept is that it is impossible to define
>>> precisely because it operates at and between many levels of
>>> organization:
>>>
>>>       Intra-psychic   (part of me versus another part of me);
>>> interpersonal; in small groups; in organizations or large groups; in
>>> culture.
>>>  another example: My cultural role as a woman in Afghanistan (in the
>>> eyes of men and the Law) may compete with my (personal) desire for an
>>> education.
>>>
>>>       I find, though, that the absence of a precise definition doesn't
>>> interfere with role theory as a practical endeavor. It does make it
>>> hard
>>> to satisfy the (foolishly narrow) requirements of some academics.
>>>       (What's foolishly narrow is the concept that things must be
>>> precisely definable for them to be useful)
>>>
>>>        JW What do you think? is this congruent with the what you have
>>> conveyed to me about role.
>>>  AB: You can see how I gently disagree from the outset.
>>>
>>>   JW Have read your chapter on Meta-role and will continue to think and
>>> ask questions... regards Jenny
>>>   AB: Hope this is encouraging you. I appreciate your efforts at trying
>>> to make sense out of it. You remind me that role theory is not
>>> immediately clear and indeed can easily be confusing! More work to
>>> do!  warmly, adam
>>
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