powerful statements & action methods

Adam Blatner ablatner at verizon.net
Tue Oct 14 08:55:35 CDT 2008


Hi Ivo, thanks for your comments. A few points. In your item on Ken Wilber, when you spoke of economics I think you meant the lower "right" (not left" column, the objective cultural institutions and arrangements (i.e., cultural conserves). 

    The other point: You wrote: I  think in our informational era, the importance that the written form has and how badly it is treated, particularly by the media, but also by the blog sphere and generally by Internet have to be a central concern for our society. The distorted messages, the shadow projections, the toxic arguments...  Adam, I can see your point of giving more emphasis on action methods rather than bold statements. Perhaps we really need both, if we think the people who have the social power are the ones that can influence groups with nothing but illusions (but than using manipulative power and individual agendas). We need both an approach where we can communicate to the heart of people and simultaneously to deliver really concrete action methods. Is it possible to put the emphasis in both?

          AB: this struck me at a time when I've been thinking of the psycho-socio-cultural roots of epistemology---that big word referring to the question of how do we know what we know. I've been reading some books about critical thinking and psychology recently, and several points seem to be so. (I'm laying a foundation to reply to the paragraph above.)
    1. People have been educated to "know." Knowing answers, having confidence in what you know, is seen as strength. Being unsure, still investigating, is weak. Some corollaries:  a. Debate is good, and people should present their positions with passion, argument. (My whole point is that many of these positions are actually misleading and largely mistaken!) b. The older you are the more you should be "confident." c. Political leaders would not be voted in if they say, "I have some plausible ideas that we're going to try out; they seem better on medium close examination than my opponents. I am better at improvising (i.e., Moreno's ideal of spontaneity) than my opponent, and that is why you should vote for me. Circumstances change, and my campaign promises will likely need revision.... etc."  People want certainty. The media feed this childish illusion.
            To restate: I don't hold with some of the unspoken rules about pretending that you know and it's okay to express this knowledge with confidence. Not only is this misleading, but it offers a model to young people that they, too, should develop a persona of pseudo-confidence. There are few heroes, models, out there offering models of reasoned inquiry, which is then the foundation for improvisation.

     2. We have centuries of adults, authority figures, clergy, etc. saying "I know truth." This is the model. We have no tradition of God saying, "I'm improvising, and I'm not finished with creation; furthermore, I am not ultimately powerful: I cannot make you as co-creators behave. I am but a still, small voice in your souls."

    3. People in their childish mentality associate the illusion of knowing (or its second-best status, believing in the face of mystery) with security. They feel insecure if anyone who is supposed to "know" hints that knowledge is provisional, a working model for the moment, and in need of ongoing revision. This demand for certainty has not yet been widely recognized as immature. Rather, authorities have pandered to it. (See the story of the Grand Inquisitor, in the middle of Dostoyevsky's "The Brothers Karamazov.")

      3a. There's a tendency towards either-or thinking, so being less than confident about knowledge (which seems "strong") must then be viewed as "weak."  Too few people have seen adults use the maturity and strength of persistence, diplomacy, negotiation, discussion, dialogue, listening, role reversal, empathy, and realized that this was a more authentic type of strength. Rather, we are exposed to superheroes and other movie figures who resort to simple physical power, force, intimidation, and violence to "win." The idea of coming to a "draw" is inconceivable to the immature mind, though in fact that's what we do all the time in a good disagreement with close family. How can we generate what seem to be win-win arrangements? That is the wisdom of diplomacy. 

    4. Returning to Ivo's comments about "bold statements." This is a strategy, a policy, and one should become clear where and how it is likely to be effective. In many contexts, bold statements tend to become free of qualifications and therefore oversimplified. This is a problem with politics and rhetoric. Half the time bold statements are misleading, stupid, can backfire, and /or are ignored. Occasionally, a bit of rhetoric is useful, depending on the situation and especially the audience! Who are you aiming your statements at? 
 
     5. There are other categories besides action methods and bold statements, other alternatives. One is an invitation to dialogue, one in which parties truly listen and are willing to revise their own positions according to their interaction. 

     6. The idea that we can communicate to the heart of people assumes that there is a category called "people," and the art of politics shows this to be illusory, like "structure." It is a gross overgeneralization. There are many many sub-sets, sub-cultures, demographic niches, and ultimately, the peculiarities of individuals. Even the individual is a combination of sub-selves or roles, many of which are in conflict or "undecided." Many of these roles are further rather unconscious or disowned. 
        So politics as the art of the possible asks, "What group are we talking to and what do they need to hear? What can't they hear? What must be said if they are to vote for us? Can we lie? Can we get away with lying? How much can we stretch and distort the truth?"  etc.

       (You may discern that I'm also reacting to the current swirl of political debate as we prepare for our national elections.)

              Well, that's enough for now.  Warmly, Adam
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